Aug 31, 2008

There Is A Time For Everything

There is time for everything. There was a time when we born, there was a time when we were be able to walk with our own foot, there was a time when grew up become a teenager and we fell love for the first time, and of course there will a time for each of us to meet someone right, fall in love soo deep, get married, have couple of kids, and finally after a long long way -- we are going to be, hopefully, a grandmother or a grand father of our grandchildrens. How is that sound?
Speaking of married, yesterday I was in Novotel Hotel to help my friend to organize a weeding party. He owned a small Event Organizer and he desperately asked for my help this time, to be a Bride LO ( I don't know what LO stands for, but it is kind of to escort the bride from morning until the end of the party.) And that's what I did yesterday. I have to woke up very early and go to the salon, just sit there in the couch wait for the make up process. Please note, I just sat there and did nothing. Well, ok..Iwas read a novel, thank God. And eat Oreos. hauahuahuaha.
After that I have to follow the bride wherever she go, to her house to do the whatever ceremony, to the hotel and do the other ceremony, and so on and son until the party start.

I was wondered yesterday when the bride and the groom stand in front of all the guests about the wedding itself. I believe that our soulmate is decided by God. He got the power and He got His very own time and He got His very own perfect reason. Like I said before, no matter how far is the distance between a man and a women, even he or she is with someone else, if they are decided by God to be together, they somehow will find a way to meet and to be together at the end. If God decided them to be together and be a soulmate for another, no matter how hard you try to avoid it, you can't. The only questions left for me are when is my time and who is my someone decided by God to be with me in the wedding like the wedding I attended yesterday in my own time?

That's surely a big mystery for each of us, and for me too. There are many silly questions showed up in my mind yesterday like what concept I want for my wedding later? what wedding dress I want to wear later? who is going to be my husband who stand beside me not just at the party but the rest of my life?
Silly, eh? huahuahauhuhauauhuahua. But I just want to be honest, that's exactly what I thought. And I don't mind to say it, because I believe that every girls have their own imagination about their wedding party and their future life.

I don't know anything about my future, but something or two I can promise to myself is whoever is going to be my husband, I will love him with all my heart, and so do his family. His mother, his father, his brother(s), his sister(s), even his dog or whatever.
Like I said before too, I learn to value everyone who close to me, loves them, appreciates them, honors them, cares for them, sacrifices for them.

There is a time for everything. It means there is a time for each of us to meet death. And I don't want to feel regret when death take my beloved people. I want to feel that I already loved them much and more in the time that they still alive, still can feel my love, still can be happy and feel loved, still completely and fully being alive.

So loves everyone who close to you, treasures them, appreciates them, give forgiveness to them, honors them, cares for them, LOVES THEM!! =D

Love is the source of life.
You will die if you don't have love.
And you don't keep love.
You share them.

p.s: The latest K class I attended was a nightmare. And my days are nightmare. I just hope that this nightmare will be over soon. Yeaahh.. (^.')o

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

ihiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii...............
susan pgn kawen rekkkkkkk..........
wakakakakakakakakakkk...
btw, what's bride LO? bride's maid ta maksudmu? hohohohoho....
jadi banniang ta km san? kapan?
suwe rek g ktm, kamu se suombuong... huuuu... dulu dijak mkn bakso b rgn jg g mo.. huuu... hehehehehe...
yapa kbre san????
btw, i'm sure someday u'll find that guy who'll stand beside u on your wedding day... huohohohoho....

Susan said...

hahahhahaa...
apa seh km itu.
bukan, bride maid kan sing ndampingi manten'e lak an. ini aku sing dari pihak EO'e. kan itu manten punya jadwal to, aku sing mesti teriak2i mereka biar tetep on schedule.
adoo... K class ku lebih fenting dari baksyo eoo. nti kafan2 lah kita fegi2 ok? mari aku lulus tapi'e. ahhaha..maka'e doano aku yes.
DOAKAN SAYA YA SEMUANYAAAAAAA!!!