At Sutos, once again I spent my time with some older people. Lili's counsins are married and they told me a looott of things about everything, but especially about a relationship between a man and a women. I conclude most of them here:
- In the time you have a relationship with a guy, you have to make sure that you are happy. If you already crying out loud because of him or for him, you better leave him behind. "Pacaran" is the time when you are loved and wanted by him not the opposite.
- The maximum age for a women to get married is 28. More than that is a red sign warning. But the perfect number is 24.
- If a guy leave you without some assurance, you better ask him straight the face. If he still don't give you a certainty, you better leave him - right away.
- There are differences between when you still in relationship and when you already married. The example they gave me is this: if you fall because of something, maybe your boyfriend will say "be careful dear". But if you already married and you still fall anyway, maybe he will say "watch your eyes!!". hahahaha. So yea, lucky you, if you're not experience that.
- The last thing is probably the best encouragement suggestion: sebelum janur kuning melengkung, berarti masih ada kesempatan. hahahahaha..:D
After all, I've got this beautiful quote from the book Eunike bought yesterday, more or less has a meaning like this:
What you willing to let go will decide what God can give you in return
Apa yang bersedia kamu lepaskan akan menentukan apa yang Tuhan akan berikan kepadamu
The book said that the good is the enemy of the better. The better is the enemy of the best. So if you hold on to what you have right now even if you know it's not suit you, it mean that you are blocking God's way to give you the better, or even the best one.
Like one of my friend said, if you can have a Rolex quality to be in your partner for life, why you have to satisfy with Casio? :)
6 comments:
i agree with the part which stated that the most proper age to get married is 24!!!!! haoahaohahahahaha.... as 2 of my sisters were married at 24! aku y mesti kyk gt rek... wkwkwkwkw....
mmmm... ya memang rolex lbh apik se san.... but mungkin ae casio'e lbh enak pakeane, km lbh comfortable b dee... trs rolex sg bertaburan berlian lbh susah njaga'e, nti gampang dicolong orang lo.....
hoahahaoaahahahahahaa.....
What you willing to let go will decide what God can give you in return
Generally, we call it tabur tuai.. this is so true (based on my self experience)
Eh 24 umur yg perfect ya ? Berarti deadline mu tinggal sebentar lg tuh :P
eo: bukan secara fisik eo. maksud'e itu kalo emang ternyata ada sing lebih cocok, lebih baik, lebih sabar, lebih-lebih disegala'e yang lebih fit ke kamu, ya ngapain km pertahano sing lama. kadang orang itu kalo wes buta gara2 cinta rada susah ngeliat kenyataan kalo orang tersebut ternyata tidak sebaik dan sebaik itu buat dia. yah gitu lah kira2. itu si eunike yang bilang. hahahaha
jie: itu kata orang. for me, terserah Tuhan deh. percaya aja dengan segenap hati. hahahaha. ikut doain gitu lo biar sungguhan biar 24 sungguhan bisa married. hahaha
regen & eo: OMG...+/- 3 tahun lagi ada yang syebar syebar undangan. haohaohoahoa
sek2 yg rolex tuh co yg gmn,klo casio tuh co yg gmn??bingung san...rolex tuh org yg perfect d matamu.tp le casio tuh ga perfect tp bkn brarti ga bagus..gt ya??
@david: saya jelaskan di fb aja lah. hahahahaha
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